Posts Tagged ‘women’
I know the minute this gets posted a thousand angry black females are going to post me and call me a troll, but I don’t care you can bite me. I am no different from any other black person asking questions about white.
I am a biracial female (Black/white) I am 22 yrs old and currently engaged to a wonderful black man. Now most of the time in my life, I have dated “Non-black” men either they were white,spanish, or mixed like myself. I am not racist, just thats what approached me at the time and they caught my attention. I met my fiance in highschool and we finally are together I am currently pregnant with my second child and we are happy. Since I have started dating him however, I have been turned on to more racism from black women and my fiance opened my eyes to somethings I never really knew before. I grew up in Pine hills of Orlando, FL which is sort of the ghetto, so the schools I went too were most black, in school they treated me like crap. Black girls mostly had a problem with me for no reason whatsoever. They started rumors about me, tried to jump me, accused me of being a ho trying to take there men etc… I even had problems with my black female teachers. My boyfriend simply told me that black women feel hurt by mixed women because we have been known to think we are better then black women. Even now in stores black women stare and make comments about me , give dirty looks and it gets annoying. When I go to the bars and clubs and dance, they try to out shine me and stuff on the dance floor. What makes it worse is, I was the other woman at some point with my fiance, he was dating a black woman and when he met me he left her and she found out that he proposed to me and try to mess his and my life up. She said that after all she went through with him, he won’t marry her, but he will mary the white B**** and Im not even white I’m MIXED. Can someone please tell me what is going on? I dont want to hear crap, cause racism goes both ways and I see just as much ignorance from black women asking questions bout white women and etc… So if you don’t like what u read dont comement.
I see that maybe they think light skinned people act that way, but we don’t. I don’t think I am better. I am just a girl.
Biracial beauty, I see where you are coming from and maybe you feel closer which is fine, but from what I have experience, they treat me bad. When black women say we have no right to say something about hair problems that is ignorant, because we don’t have the same issues!! It’s bullS*** how would they know what we are going through? Also the statement you made I dont agree with as far as having white girl problems but dealing with them like a black woman, color has nothing to do with it. My mom is white and she dealt with her problems like a champ.
Do any black women find any of them attractive?
Chris Pine ( Captain Kirk from the ‘09 Star Trek) http://snarkerati.com/movie-news/files/2009/06/chris-pine.jpg
or
Sam Worthington (Marcus from the 4th Terminator and Jake Sully from Avatar) http://www.ahlanlive.com/images/tmp/full/312ahewcst_6_full.jpg
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Henry Cavill (Charles Brandon from The Tudors) http://cdn.buzznet.com/media/jj1//2008/08/cavill-health/henry-cavill-mens-health-02.jpg
sfresh: they love me long time lol jk.
eh, just been bored. horrible xmas!
lmao yeah im single and ashamed to admit it haha.
Black men have made it very clear to the World that they think black women are beneath them. And if that is how they feel, then why are so many black women still pining away hoping for a “good brotha” when clearly most of them are either in prison, going to prison, unemployed, crack addicts, HIV infected, ex cons, daddy to many baby mamas, lovers of any woman except black women or just plain irresponsible, or mama’s boys? Don’t believe me, look up the stats for yourself!
I’m not suggesting White men.. That might be going a bit too far!! But to each his own.
Nigeria: The Women in Jonathan’s Cabinet – Who They Are
Until her appointment as Minister of Finance by the then President Olusegun Obasanjo on July 15, 2003, only a few Nigerians, outside the economic and financial sectors, knew of Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala.
Read more on AllAfrica.com
So In four days I will go camping in Austria…cool huh? Except for my period and other countless woman problems I will have on the trip! So this isn’t a “little” camping trip. It is a hardcore 2 week real camping experience! I talking about tents and no bathrooms!! Plus! It’s in Austria…and I don’t know German! But thats just the small stuff… heres the real problem…
First off I will have my period at the beginning of the second week.I’ve already been staying in Germany for a month now… and mother nature planned for my trip so perfectly so that I would have my Period three times while I was staying away from home…long story short…I’m short on pads. I know, I know…USE TAMPONS! But that doesn’t work for me. Again I am so “lucky” that I have my period for a week…thats right…seven days! So the amount of changing required for tampons plus the rarity that I will have time to change my tampon (and where to put it) makes it so inconvenient for camping. AND if that doesn’t make tampons inconvenient.. My period is heavy, and I bleed very heavily for five days…and thanks to the time change I bleed the most at night…yah…goodbye sleeping bag… At home when ever I use tampons I always leak…and the only ones that protect my undies feel like socks! So I guess I have no choice but to double up on pads or something but the problem is that I’ve already used most of them and I don’t have may left for this time around…and the camping is in four days…and I go to german school with my friend Marianne…and to be honest I’m kinda embarrassed to go shopping for pads (I know, it’s something all women have to do).
Ok…now about the other problems which are minor in comparison all link to bathrooms and showering. As for bathing…we have a lake. The main part is that I’m worried about what products I can use in a lake and how to go about cleaning my hair. My hair is curly and I like it that way because my hair naturally makes soft locks and looks really nice and I usually get complements. Taking care of it is easy…all I need is water,conditioner, and a comb…but even the easiest of hair can get tangled when you don’t have what you need to take care of it and mine is no exception. Ever since I got my hair cut shorter it’s been really hard to get it into a braid when it’s dry and I won’t have all the time in the world or even a proper shower to tame it. So the other problem is that I’m not fond of using the “outdoors” as my bathroom. I really don’t know how to “just go” and I am very clean when it comes to things like this. If I could bring one thing at a deserted island, toilet paper would be the 3rd on my list. So really all my troubles focus on hygiene because I’m pretty athletic and I’ve gone camping for 2 weeks before…just not this intense.
and if you were wondering…I’m going with the scouts (girl/boy scouts) that my friends Marianne goes to. Marianne is more worried about the hiking and physical strength stuff. I travel a lot for my age and to tell you the truth this is the longest time I’ve been away and completely alone.